Right ladies – you’re not happy at home for whatever reason. He’s been working away a lot recently, and you don’t hate him for that because he is just trying to provide for you and your children. You know that things will calm down in a year or so… He’s just working really hard right now. You’re not getting cuddles in bed on a Sunday morning like you used to. He’s not taking you out for dinner like he once did. You can’t remember the last time you got dressed up and went out somewhere nice. In fact, you can’t remember the last time you had sex either.
At this point, many women would be looking at ending the relationship. She’s not getting enough from the marriage she’s in and therefore wants to look elsewhere. The thing that you need to remember in this situation is that things WILL get better. His long working hours and lack of affection are only a short term blip… It’s not really worth giving up for, is it?
That’s when affair dating comes into play. You don’t want to end your marriage but you do need to find that thing you are so desperately missing, and now craving. If you could ensure that your ‘better half’ would never find out, would you consider an extra marital affair?
Do you know what you are looking for?
Is it sex that you need, or cuddles in bed? What is it that you are hoping to get out of your affair? You need to know what you want before you sign up to an extra marital fair type website… otherwise you won’t know what to tell any prospective partners.
If it’s sex that you want, complete anonymous sex, you need to make sure that the lover you take on is aware of that. The last thing you need is for a guy to fall hopelessly in love with you. After all, you’re already in love. You’re in love with your husband. You’re just not getting enough sex! 😉
Opt for men without baggage!
Although there are certain benefits to sleeping with a married man, a guy without baggage is going to prove to be an easier journey. There are no kids to work around, no wife at home waiting for him, no commitments… Although the married man will probably understand your need for secrecy better, someone without baggage will make things simpler. When there is only one partner to hide things from, you only have to think up one set of lies. Do you see?
Learn to live with the guilt!
There’s a pretty good chance that when you’re lying there in your post-sex glow, entangled with your new lover in his bed, you are going to feel pangs of guilt. This kinda goes without saying really – this is something you’ll feel even if you were the most cold-hearted bitch in the world. The guy you have providing for your children is a wonderful man and an amazing dad to your kids… It’s ok to feel guilty.
You need to learn how to get over this guilt though. Put it to one side. Guilt will make you talkative and the last thing you’ll want is to have a few drinks with your hubby back home and blurt everything out. What’s the point in having your cake and eating it too if you’re going to give it all up so easily?
Be upfront with your lover!
As much as you wouldn’t like to get led on by a potential new guy in your life, don’t lead your new lover on. If you know full well that this relationship has no chance of going anywhere except sex-ville, make sure that he is aware of this. When you sleep with someone for a while, feelings will arise and for the most part, you can forget about some of them. However, if he thinks he stands a chance and makes his move, you’ll regret it!
Pay attention!
Remember what lies you’ve told. Keep a password protected diary on your phone if you need to. Don’t go to places that you might get caught, and don’t use your credit or debit card to pay for anything to do with your affair. You’ll get found out if you don’t pay attention, and that means a whole world of trouble!
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