We know how it’s meant to go – boy meets girl, boy woos girl, boy and girl fall in love and hopefully live happily ever after. Wouldn’t it be great if life actually went that way from time to time? The truth is, it rarely does, and more of us are now running much busier lives than we were before. There’s hectic work schedules to work around, plus trips to the gym, socialising with friends, going away on holidays… Who has time for a relationship these days anyway?
Of course, NSA adult fun, or no strings dating, brings with it more benefits than just fitting a naughty night in with a complete stranger from time to time. What about all the other positives that so many people conveniently forget to mention? Why about fantasy fulfillment?
Tell Me Your Fantasies…
When you meet someone for sex, you don’t know anything about that person. They could be anyone. That’s the first exciting thing that you will soon experience with no strings sex. You can make this person out to be anyone that you want them to be in your head, and because you only see each other for that brief moment when you are both lost in your own passions, they don’t have the chance to ruin that personal you’ve created for them.
Instantly, this makes casual sex dating hotter. That hot guy you picked up last night might work in IT but in your head, and because you don’t know anything otherwise, he’s a physical trainer and he’s about to give you the workout of your life. That’s the simplicity of it all really – you can live out your ultimate fantasies.
Let’s say that you’re a thirty-something guy, married with three kids. You love your wife and you adore your children but somewhere along the line, you’ve not lived the life you thought you’d lead.
When you were younger, you had all the time in the world to live out your fantasies. Those threesomes that you always said you were going to have – they never happened. Neither did anal sex. 30 years old and you’ve still not enjoyed that experience. You don’t want to regret anything but you’re pretty sure your wife won’t agree to either of those things. Why should you miss out on the experience of a lifetime?
It doesn’t matter what you’ve always wanted to do in the bedroom, NSA dating gives you the opportunity to find the person that wants to help you do it, or multiple people if you really hit the jackpot. That’s the thing – you never really know where and how it all might end up and for the most part, it’s all good news!